Mothering Many

Not for me, for you. Specifically, this is for some of you older mothers who had walked his path before me. How do I show my girls how to age gracefully when I am being dragged kicking and screaming into menopause and my baby is only four years old? How am I supposed to keep up with the demands of young children when I feel like I could cook breakfast with the heat radiating from my face??!!?? Seriously, do they make vitamins for that? One A Day for the Grumpy Hotflashing Bitty Who Used to be Mary Poppins?